15 Crazy Girlfriends Tell Their Part Of The Story
Friday, Aug 28, 2020, 7:21 am
By:James Fraser
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Breakups are horrible. People need a lot of time to get over them and lead an ordinary life. You may find it hard to digest the fact that your partner cheated on you with some other person. You may find it heartbreaking to let go the person from your life. You are not in a position to handle the reactions, advice or criticism you get from your friends or family members.
We see crazy girlfriends. We see crazy boyfriends. We actually tend to believe in the words of the person who is our friend, or close to us. How crazy are crazy girlfriends? Read fifteen stories of women who revealed the little-known side of their breakup story.
1.Reason Why 'Talking' is Important
Crazy ex girlfriend here. I had an undiagnosed mental disorder and didn't understand how to handle emotions appropriately.
-LunaticalPitties
2.She Badly Missed Those Screenshots
I was called the crazy ex-girlfriend. We dated for five years so we had many friends in common. I found out he was cheating on me through sexts on his mac he left open while he was in the shower. I freaked out and I threw his stuff out of MY apartment (he was living there 'temporarily' until he could find a job). I wanted to be alone to figure my life out so I turned off my phone so he couldn't contact me and took off work for a couple days.
After mentally recuperating, I turn on my phone to some mutual friends calling me a bitch and I'm blocking you! etc. I find out that he had told them I threw him out of OUR apartment because he was talking to his sister and I thought he was cheating. He said I made him homeless. They believed him because I never responded to the accusations because my phone was off! So now they think I'm super jealous and I was crazy because I made him 'homeless' (his parents live 45 min away, he started living with them).
Luckily some people believed me, but for the most part, a lot of those mutual friends took his side. This happened six months ago and I still am getting flak for it. Too bad I never took screenshots of the sexts.
-harshmellow456
3.Guess Who's Crazy!
Met this guy over the Internet. We met, slept together a few times. Told me about an ex of his who was so unhygienic that she would not use anything on the first full day of her period, and barely changed her tampons. HE told ME that she has HPV. I went and got tested, gyno said I had four abnormal cells. I told the guy.
He flipped it on me, said I must've been the one to give it to her (even though she had full HPV), and broke things off with me. Then called me a crazy bitch when I called to scream at him for being such an asshole.
He married her. Ick.
-notastepfordwife
4.She Ended up Being the 'Crazy One'
I was meeting his friends for the first time. We all went out and then came back to his house for drinks. I'm talking to his friends getting to know them and be social. He's upstairs and talking to another friend. Girl walks in and goes up stairs I think nothing of it until his friend comes down and I'm being directed elsewhere.
I realize they're trying to distract me and of course since I'd been drinking everything was a lot bigger of a deal. I throw a fit and go and knock at the LOCKED door and might've start screaming because what else was I supposed to do when the guy you are seeing is in a locked room with a pretty girl? I'm humiliated, can't be talked down and am alone cause they're all his friends. Screaming, crying and the like.
So that's how I became the crazy one.
-like_my_coffee_black
5.Well, That Was Sad
When my mom died, I acted out. Looking back, I see I created havoc in all sorts of personal relationships during those first 2 - 3 years after her death. I was selfish, demanding, thoughtless and I hurt people. Looking back, I see this. I'm not proud.
This was years ago.
But I offer this to you all. Check into "crazy chicks" family life. See if there are major changes. A death of a mom to a female, well, it will leave her unbalanced if she is not in a secure relationship /safe place.
-jew_per_lb
6.She Should Have Reported to Police
Boyfriend I lost my virginity to took a video of me while we were having sex without my knowledge and spread it throughout high school. I was most definitely under 18 and he did not get into any sort of trouble by school admins. Told the whole school I was psycho/attention seeking because the day I found out about it being shared, I called him a hundred times freaking out and crying.
-Plz_and_danks
7.This Unfortunate and Painful Breakup Story
Well I guess the biggest reason is because he never told me the things I did that bothered him.
Like it exploded at some point and things came to light that he never talked to me about once.
Like for example, whenever he told me he was going out I would ask if I could tag a long. When everything blew up this was one of his issues and I told him in disbelief "Why didn't you just tell me you wanted to be alone? Why leave it at "I'm going to XXX."?"
I may have never understood if he was just tired of me or tired of us or if all his reasons were justified. I honestly thought until that point we were okay, so I guess that made me "crazy".
-SmokeWine
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8.The Other Side of the Story
We had kids, he didn't help and had a major addiction to screens. He also lied to me about everything. I grew up with a shitty abusive home life and had never had counseling. I didn't know how to handle all the crap I was dealing with and definitely acted incredibly crazy for a few years. The crazy even spilled over into my friendships. One day I woke up, decided to change, left with the kids, and got counseling. Best thing I could have ever done for myself and my girls.
-startittays
9.The Crazy Guy!
He was controlling and abusive. He had separated me from my family and friends and was pushing me (a very religious and socially conservative girl) into a sexual relationship I was not ready for. I started having panic attacks after sexual encounters before I literally ran away to Alaska (I was 18 at the time). He told everyone I knew that I was insane and had stolen a bunch of his stuff for drug money. Fun times.
-LifeCrisisKate
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10.This is What Lack of Confidence Does to People
I went through a physical, emotional and financially abusive relationship. After I ended it with my ex, I wouldn't talk about what happened and what he had done to me. I should have, I've recently been diagnosed with PTSD, and also repressing the memories. My point is, I am horrible in arguments and when someone is frustrated. I get very on edge and become defensive due to my ex. I should've seen a counselor soon after I ended it with my sociopathic abusive ex. I've also become very forgetful and have issues with confidence and my own intelligence due to it. Good thing I'm getting help for it now. I have a lot of support as well.
-Katbu
11.Lies are a Big No-No in a Relationship
I'm not proud, but when I was younger I would nose through my then-boyfriends facebook. I was very jealous and suspicious of other girls who chatted with him frequently. He was a pathological liar. It was constant and over trivial things such as whether or not the floor was swept, or whether our pet was fed. His Mother justified his lying with, "Oh it's his aspergers. He just likes to tell stories."
His lying became worse, I was much less trusting, and I definitely looked like a controlling bitch. I was really hoping for peace of mind or honesty from him. I ended the relationship when I realized I was not patient enough to wait for this individual to (if ever) cease the habitual lying. I also didn't like what I was turning out to be. Solid relationships don't have that level of distrust.
-WhatsThatSkaSong
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12.This Cheating Story
Crazy ex wife here. He continually lied to me after I caught him cheating after 6 years of marriage. I had proof and he kept promising me we'd work on the marriage and he'd quit talking to her. I....just lost my shit. Made his life hell for the next year after that. So glad I never had children with him. At whatever point I finally let it go, I could just walk away with 0 communication.
-dirtgirlbyday
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13.Dealing With Drug Addicts Is Difficult
I was the "crazy girlfriend." Granted I was young (18-19) and it was my first serious relationship. I didn't trust my ex one bit. Didn't like his friends, was always suspicious of what he was doing. I even made him give me all his passwords. His phone was connected to Google Voice so I could also read his texts.
Turns out, I was right to be suspicious. He was hiding a serious heroin addiction. I'm in a much better place now. I'm in a happy, healthy, and loving relationship with the most amazing guy who I could ever imagine. Craziness has subsided and I'd like to think I'm more mature now.
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14.This Liar
I met a guy at a class we took, we hit it off and started going out. I found out he was cheating on me with two girls, one of which was pregnant with his baby. I tried breaking up with him which made him to lose control of the car and crashed but he told everybody I took ahold of the wheel and crashed us into the side of the road.
-Bred_m
15.Another Sad Family Story
My ex-husband woke up one day and left me and our three kids and drove off from TX to PA. He emptied the bank account and took the "good" car with him. After I rebuilt my life, he moved back to TX and tried to reconcile. He was out of work but had gotten a mid-sized workers comp settlement and used that money to rent and furnish a big house. He never got a job and was about to lose the house when I offered to take over his lease. He figured he would just live there too and we would get together again. I said no. So now he tells everyone that I led him on and coerced him into signing this lease with promises of reconciliation and then kicked him out.
-happysnappah
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