Do Not Interview

Never see a first date as your chance to basically interview them and find out all of their plans for their own future. This is supposed to be a more relaxed atmosphere and a chance to just have a chat and get to know one another a bit, but do avoid all of the heavy stuff such as asking about their career path and basically trying to get as much information as you can out of them. Do it bit by bit over many dates and not all at once.